Thinking about leaving TalkingParents? Before you cancel your subscription, you'll want to export your message history, calendar data, and expense records — especially if you need them for future reference or court proceedings.
This step-by-step guide walks you through downloading everything you need from TalkingParents before switching to a free or lower-cost alternative.
Why Export Your Data First?
Once you cancel your TalkingParents subscription, you lose access to most of your records. If you might need evidence of communication history — for custody arrangements, expense disputes, or simply keeping a record of your co-parenting journey — exporting beforehand is essential.
We recommend keeping a local backup that includes:
- Full message history (with timestamps)
- Shared calendar events
- Expense tracking records
- Any uploaded documents
Step-by-Step Export Guide
1 Log into your TalkingParents account
Visit TalkingParents.com and sign in with your email and password. Make sure your subscription is still active — you won't be able to export messages from a cancelled account.
2 Go to your message history
Navigate to the messages section. Look for an "Export" or "Download" option — usually found in the settings or account menu. TalkingParents offers PDF and CSV export options.
3 Download messages as PDF
Select your full message history and choose PDF format for court-ready records. This preserves timestamps and message order. Most plans allow you to select a date range — choose "All" to get everything.
4 Export calendar and expenses
Repeat the export process for your shared calendar and expense records. These typically export as CSV files, which you can open in any spreadsheet app or upload to your new co-parenting platform.
5 Check your downloads
Verify each file downloaded correctly. Open the PDFs to confirm all messages are there, and check CSVs for complete data. Store everything in a secure, organised folder you can reference later.
6 Download any uploaded documents
If you've uploaded documents (parenting plans, court orders, school records) to TalkingParents, download those too. Most can be saved directly from the documents section.
What to Do With Your Exported Data
Once you have your records saved locally, you have options:
- Keep a personal archive — Store the files securely for future reference
- Upload to a solicitor — Share PDFs directly with your legal team
- Move to a new app — Start fresh on Larkling and keep your archives as a reference
💡 Tip: Export your data at least 48 hours before your subscription renews. Some users report that export features become unavailable immediately after cancellation. Give yourself a buffer.
What TalkingParents Exports Include
TalkingParents PDF exports typically include:
- Full message content with timestamps
- Read receipts and delivery status
- Participant information
- Account identifiers for verification
What they don't include (depending on your plan):
- Inline media attachments (download these separately)
- Call recordings (if applicable to your account)
- User profile information
Switching to a Free Alternative
Once you've exported everything, you're free to switch to a co-parenting app that better fits your family's needs and budget. Larkling offers free secure messaging, a shared calendar, and expense tracking — with optional Premium features like tamper-evident PDF exports when you need them.
Unlike TalkingParents, Larkling doesn't charge per parent and was built to support all family structures — not just traditional mum-and-dad arrangements.
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First 200 families get Premium free for 1 month. Full message history, tamper-evident exports, and more — no payment needed. Your exported history will have a new home.
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