School Transition Co-Parenting Guide

School transitions — starting nursery, moving to primary or secondary school, or changing schools — are significant milestones for any child. For co-parenting families, they also require coordination between parents, schools, and sometimes multiple households.

Choosing a School

School choice is one of the most consequential decisions co-parents make together. If parents live in different catchment areas or school districts, the decision can affect custody arrangements. Document your discussions about school choices in your co-parenting app so there's a clear record of how decisions were reached.

Parent-Teacher Communication

Both parents have the right to be involved in their child's education. Ensure both parents are listed as contacts with the school. Use a shared calendar to track parent-teacher evenings, school events, and holidays. Larkling's calendar lets both parents see everything at a glance.

School Holiday Coordination

School holidays require advance planning — especially when both parents work. Agree on holiday schedules early, document them in your shared calendar, and communicate any changes through documented channels. See our holiday scheduling guide for detailed templates.